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10 Fun and Easy Date Night Ideas for Seniors

If there is one thing we know about love, it is that good date nights can help keep relationships fun and healthy. Unfortunately, as we age, it can be easy to run out of ideas for a new and exciting date night. Perhaps, you have stuck to your favorite ideas for a little too long, and it's time to try new ideas. Or, because you have been out of the dating scene for so long, you feel lost.

People in their 50s or older tend to know what they want from a relationship. Dating is a social activity that provides a unique form of companionship that is different from friendship. Older adults can draw lessons from their old relationship experiences. 

Date night ideas should be easy and simple so that the focus remains on your partner. Keeping things simple is the best way forward. You don't want your date to be more about the experience and less about the person you are experiencing it with.

In this article, we will discuss ten date night ideas for older adults that are not only creative and original but also fun and easy. 

10 Great Date Night Ideas for Seniors

     1. Attend a Local Band Performance

Number 1 on our list of date night ideas for older adults is to see a local band play. Even if you've never heard of the band or it's not your favorite genre, it can be a lot of fun to watch a live performance. This might also present an opportunity for you to understand your partner's music taste.

Go to a local bar that hosts live music shows. You and your partner might even get a chance to request your favorite classics or enjoy some time on the dance floor while you're there.

Search live music on Google maps or another similar app to discover bars and restaurants that feature local bands. Your city may even have a local directory of local bands as well.

Click here to learn more about the benefits of listening to music

     2. Take a Long Walk

senior couple walking on path outdoorsNothing beats the beauty of a long walk as a date night idea. Yes, it's cheesy, and yes, it may seem very plain, but the simple effectiveness of this idea is timeless. 

Go on a long walk with your partner. This will help you spend quality time with them while also learning how your long conversations will flow. Not to mention, you can explore new areas, see new sites, and have plenty to talk about as you pass new and interesting things. 

Once you get used to going on long walks, you can level up and venture outside city limits for short hikes. 

     3. Take a Trip to a Local Farm

If you ask around at a local farmer's market, you should be able to find a farm that can host you and your partner for a farm experience. Many farms will be happy to show themselves and their products to the community. Visiting a farm can be a great experience to get up and close with farm animals, breathe in the fresh air, and learn about where your local groceries come from.

While at the farm, make sure you buy something fresh to take home and prepare a fresh meal!

     4. Tour a Local Brewery

If you and your partner enjoy ending the evening with a pint of cold beer, then take a tour of a brewery to enhance your appreciation of your favorite brew. Learn about the art of brewing, and become an expert on your local beer brand. You'll enjoy learning something new while experimenting with tasting a few new beers with your date. 

     5. Go Fishing

older couple fishing together on the beachFishing takes skills and patience, not to mention a little luck too. Unfortunately, not everyone knows how to fish. But if you know how to fish, or if you plan to develop this skill, doing so with your date sitting next to you is a fantastic idea. Even if you do not know how to go fishing, be honest with your partner and tell them that you want to learn and do it more. This will send a great message about you and your approach to living life.

Whether you catch any fish or not, you'll have a great time sitting on the water or along the shore, with plenty of quiet time and pretty scenery. 

     6. Attend a Book Signing Event

Do you both like to read? Next time you visit your favorite bookshop, ask them if any writers are scheduled for a book reading in the coming weeks. Such events can be intimate and highly intellectual. In that way, you will have plenty to discuss with your partner after the date.

     7. Visit an Art Gallery

Looking at art and discussing what you feel should make any date memorable. Look up an art gallery near you. Most galleries have calendars with upcoming events, which can be both educational and intriguing. Expose yourself to something you have never seen before, and you'll have plenty to talk about during your time at the gallery. It might also open the door to unexpected and fascinating conversations. 

     8. Get Some Board Games

older couple playing chess together on the couchIf you'd rather do something indoors, then playing board games can be an excellent idea. Can you remember the last time you played a board game with anyone? 

Board games can be fun and practical relationship-building exercises. Nowadays, there are so many interesting and creative board games being created. Try to find board games you haven't played before and make your date night a little competitive.

Head to a game store nearby or find a game online. Online stores have a lot more options too. Also, in online stores, you may find some truly unique games. Here is a list if you want to get started with board games.

Click here to learn about the benefits of playing games

     9. Make it a Double Date

If it's a new relationship, finding another couple to go on a date with you will help you test your connection in a social setting. Call up your old friends and ask what they are up to. Ask them to join the two of you on a double date. Or, if they are doing something cool, ask if you can join in. 

For new couples, this can ease the discomfort of dating by allowing friends to help carry the conversation. For married couples, making it a double date can add an element of fun and socialization to change up the routine of always going out alone. 

     10. Become a Tourist

Tourist couple traveling togetherWhen was the last time you visited your city's attractions? Inspire a holiday feel by playing tourist in your town or one nearby for your date night. Look up historical markers, or even sign up for a tour of your city. 

Airbnb can be an excellent place to look for things to do or even places to stay. So take out that camera and hang it around the neck for a special date night. 

 

Simple and easy date night ideas will help you focus on your partner instead of the idea itself. Such date nights will also help you foster communication with each other.

Going on date nights will decrease the chances of taking each other for granted. It reduces stress and builds attachment to one another. Being in small and quaint spaces increases feelings of intimacy. Choose from our creative list of ideas and make magic happen over an evening.

Are you looking for someone to share your date night with? Check out our blog post, Best Dating Websites for Singles Over 50!

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